Trust in the Lord who loves us and guides us gently through prayers, through people around us and through all things that we cannot even comprehend.  What does God want for our family, for my kids?  Everything changed when I changed my perspective on our family’s homeschool vision and goals.  Is it finishing the curriculum on time or establishing the relationship with my children that God has intended more important?  Yes, you can be intentional at home to build the relationship with your kids and to teach them to love studying the language, math, history and the creation of God. 

I have witnessed more than once that God pours sparingly like cup that overflows.  Once we are ready and kids are ready, God works miraculous wonders in our daily lives. 

I switched from setting our schedule to rhythm.  Rhythm is a set of block schedule without time restraints.  You know roughly when each subject will end, but if one subject is extended somehow, you can take more time to cover the subject.

Kids thrive on regular rhythm and routines.  They feel relaxed and secure to know what is next.  For kids who like control, they understand that homeschool has a rhythm and know what to expect next.  It gave me a peace of mind that I am not rushed to finish at a certain time.  

Without a rhythm and routine, kids become anxious and worried and decide to rather play around and test mom’s limit.  My Mango Sorbet is an expert in testing limits and was notorious in our previous school.  After many months of struggle, the consistency of the rhythm finally paid off.  Even if it may be hard in the beginning, it will be all worth it and eventually, you will be able to taste the joy of finding the best teaching moments.